It’s About Time You Stopped Doing These Things in Public

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We’ve all seen it; The person yelling into their phone on a quiet train. The group blocking an entire doorway. The guy taking up two seats on public transport like he paid double.

Public spaces only work when we remember we’re not the only ones in them. A little self-awareness goes a long way. And while none of us are perfect, there are certain habits that just need to go.

It’s about time you stopped doing these things in public, not because there’s a rulebook somewhere, but because basic consideration makes life better for everyone.

Talking Loudly on Your Phone

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No one else signed up to hear your full conversation. Whether you’re in a café, grocery store, or on public transport, keep your voice down. If it’s a long or personal call, step outside. Public doesn’t mean private.

Littering

This shouldn’t even need saying. If you brought it with you, you can dispose of it properly. Public spaces are shared spaces.

Related: 10 Things You Should Recycle

Over-the-Top Public Displays of Affection

A hug? Fine. A quick kiss? Also fine. But when things get overly intimate, it makes everyone around you feel like they accidentally walked into something private. Read the room.

Standing Too Close

Crowded spaces happen, but if there’s room to spread out, do it. Personal space matters more than you think.

Blocking Walkways

Stopping in the middle of a sidewalk, escalator, or store entrance forces everyone behind you to dodge around. If you need to check your phone or chat, step aside.

Taking Up More Than Your Share of Space

On public transportation, especially, sit as other people do. One seat means one seat.

Gossiping Loudly About People Around You

If someone nearby can clearly hear you talking negatively about someone else, it reflects poorly. Keep conversations respectful.

Staring

Glancing is normal. Prolonged staring? Not so much. It can make people feel uncomfortable or self-conscious.

Forgetting Basic Manners

“Please.” “Thank you.” “Excuse me.” They’re simple words that instantly soften interactions and make public life smoother.

Scrolling Your Phone During Conversations

If you’re with someone, be with them. Constantly checking your phone sends the message that you’re not paying full attention.

Taking Selfies at the Worst Possible Times

There’s a difference between snapping a quick photo and turning a serious or crowded moment into a photoshoot. Context matters.

Losing Your Temper in Public

We all have bad days. But yelling at cashiers, snapping at strangers, or making a scene only adds stress to everyone’s day. Handle conflict calmly whenever possible.

Grooming Yourself in Full View of Everyone

Clipping nails. Flossing. Doing a full makeup routine at a café table. It’s awkward for everyone. Save personal grooming for home or at least a restroom.

Yelling at Your Kids

Parenting is hard. But shouting at children in public tends to escalate the situation and make everyone, including your child, uncomfortable. If you need to correct behavior, step aside and lower your voice.

Coughing or Sneezing Without Covering Your Mouth

It takes two seconds to use your elbow or a tissue. In crowded spaces, especially, basic hygiene is just common courtesy.

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Tamara White is the creator and founder of The Thrifty Apartment, a home decor and DIY blog that focuses on affordable and budget-friendly home decorating ideas and projects. Tamara documents her home improvement journey, love of thrifting, tips for space optimization, and creating beautiful spaces.

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